Pregnancy not comes as easy at times. I have a friend who's unfortunately lost her baby at her 5th month of pregnancy. She has a preterm labor with early membrane rupture in one morning when she woke up from her sweet sleep. She rushed to hospistal immediately but she still unable to save her baby's life and was undergoing an induce labor with no other choice. This is a damn bad decision for the newly wed husband and wife who desprately wanted a baby.
Her incidence kept floating in my mind and I have run out of idea how to concern a pity mom-to-be like her. I find no suitable words to comfort her at this moment. Life can be so short and it's just like her baby who end his breathe at the age of 5 months. He didnt even have chance to explore the miracle of this world. The mom-to-be didnt's have chance to hold her precious little one in her arm after she is carrying her baby in her womb for few months time and yet he did leave her alone now.
I feel deepest sympathy to the parent-to-be.
The incidence gave me a great impact for my pregnancy. I used to hope to have a baby boy at the beginning of my pregnancy. I did feel so sad when my Doc tell me that I'm going to have a baby girl. I feel so guilty with my expression and thoughts at the time being. In fact, I should be more thankful for the healthy pregnancy. I should be thankful to reach this stage of pregnancy with my baby still moving actively in my womb. I should be thankful for still be able to see my baby throught the scanning screen in my every prenatal appoinment.
I should appreciate this precious special gift from God.
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